Posts Tagged Larry Tobin
Stop Stressing – Do, Defer, Delegate
Sometimes the problem that we’re dealing with isn’t necessarily a matter of the stress itself, but rather the way we’re approaching it. After all, we can’t lay all the blame on outside forces – we do make our own problems just as often. Fortunately, this also means that we can correct those same problems that [...]
Read moreLosing Weight – The Addiction of Comfort Food
Its very name is appealing – comfort food. What could be more wonderful than a food that helps us feel better? Almost everyone can name something that they eat when they’re just feeling sour or sad. Chinese take-out, chocolate cake, raspberry ice cream, banana pancakes and many others make the list. Of course, we know [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – Sacred Time and Space
In addition to the way that stress becomes quite relentless and ever present in our lives, it also has a terrible habit of refusing to respect boundaries. No matter how we might assume that everything’s been taken care of, something always seems to come up to intrude into our few free moments and rob us [...]
Read moreLosing Weight – A Body in Motion
Newton tells us that a body in motion will stay in motion unless acted upon; likewise, a body at rest will stay at rest until acted upon. This gives us a powerful metaphor for the difficulties of getting into a proper, healthy exercise habit that can help shed weight and keep it off. Habits can [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – Stressors and Themes
We’ve talked about stress and the elements that bring it into our lives, or stressors. Identifying our stressors can be a powerful first step, for obvious reasons – if we know what’s giving us grief, we can take steps to put it out of our way, resolve it or come to terms with it. Even [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – External Checks on Internal Perceptions
It’s very easy to take our perception as reality. We see a wall six feet away, we say it’s six feet away. We feel hot, we say it is hot. The problem is, perceptions are a matter of perspective and information. Suppose someone who’s usually cheerful at work comes in and is much more curt [...]
Read moreLosing Weight and Building Confidence
Having confidence in your goal is important. It’s tough to stick to something we don’t believe we can do, after all. We’ve talked in other articles about how easy it is to get frustrated, and about controlling negative thoughts in our effort to build up good and healthy habits. We’ve also talked about rewards and [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – Finding Choices
It’s hard to make a good choice instead of a bad one. It can be even harder to go back and undo a bad choice that we made some time ago. Instead, many times we stubbornly reinforce it again and again, letting it build up over time to continue burying us in worry, regret and [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – Using Systems to Gain Control
So far, we’ve been focusing on using small steps and independent techniques to help deal with the stress which piles up in our lives. We know about using the STOP method to interrupt difficult thoughts, or to get our attention where we need it instead of where it’s trying to go. We know about taking [...]
Read moreStop Stressing – Breathe Deep
Everyone knows how important breathing is to the body. In an emergency, we can go weeks without food and several days without water or sleep. We won’t be in the best of health, but it is possible to survive without these necessities in a pinch. However, anyone who goes more than a few seconds without [...]
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