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Helping your Memory

The human brain is indeed a remarkable thing. It is capable of storing and processing such a wide range of information that even a supercomputer would shy away when compared to it. But due to the virtual explosion of information, our memories have become very selective.

This means that we cannot recollect everything that we hear or see. Do not trust your memory too much when it comes to chatting over the net. You might meet a lot of people over the net and you might chat with a couple of them. So eventually it might become difficult to remember all of them and their details as well.

Or even worse than that is that you might become confused and mix up details. It would look bad for you if you call a person the wrong name, or ask the person the wrong details. In such cases where you have been chatting with a number of persons, for heaven’s sake jot down the details about each person separately or create separate files for each person ad store them in your computer.

When you add them to your friends list use handles or nicknames that can help you remember the person the moment you start chatting at a later date.

Now, in case you do not really remember the person, then it is unadvisable to play the guessing game. The other person might get very offended if you say something like, “Is it Sarah or Mary?”

In such cases when you have a genuine lapse of memory, the best thing to do is to be honest with the person and say, “I know we chatted the other day, but I’m terribly sorry, can you please refresh my memory about you?”



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Introduction
Why You Need To Know More...
Tastes Differ
Reading This Book
What Makes Online Dating So Different?
The Magic of the Internet
How Did Online Dating Become So Popular?
Be Clear About What You Want
Marriage Versus A Casual Relationship
Dating Comes From a Fundamental Need
Online Dating Is Here To Stay
Online Dating - How To Get The Most Out Of It
Step 1: Getting Started
Where Do You Start?
More Than Looks
Common Interests
What Interests You In A Person?
Key Word Searches
Likes Versus Dislikes
Friends First
Mr. Right and Ms. Wrong
Step 2: Making Yourself Look Like A Million Dollars
The Dream Profile
The Face In The Mirror
The Modesty Pitfall
The Braggart Pitfall
The Hackneyed Pitfall
The Boredom Pitfall
The Vagueness Pitfall
The Web of deceit
Your alter ego
Brevity is key
You are Unique
The Animal Test
Step 3: Letting The Relationship Blossom
Nicknames and Pet names
Helping your Memory
Small Talk
Beware of Instant Intimacy
4 Ways To Tell If Someone Is Lying
Step 4: Meeting Face To Face
The Rendezvous
Leaving Your Mark Behind
Clothes Maketh A Man (Or Woman)
Footing the Bill
Many Dates
Offline Dating: How To Make That Great Impression
The Secret is Charm
Gifts?
Step 5: Once Bitten
Signing Off