There are lot of instances that a heart skips a beat when a person sees the love of his life passing by; or instances when two strangers who met for the first time instantly feel the connection or the tension between themselves; or circumstances where lovers who feel that the whole world is against that they are willing to fight to the very end; or even experiences that after a heartbreak, an “angel” suddenly knocked on the door about to save the “distressed” lover from utter depression. Hopeful and fanatical lovers may coin these as Mr. Cupid actively at work and saving the day for them.
Traditionally, a cupid shoots his arrow to two hearts, which are physically together at the same time and at the same place. But does Mr. Cupid exist in the virtual world? Is his bow and arrows useful to people whom barely know one another and are worlds apart? Well, when it comes to love – why not?
There are good testimonies by individuals who ended up in a happy marriage after meeting their partners in some dating sites. We cannot discard the possibility of meeting the best person for you anywhere and in whatever method. Cupid might have also upgraded himself to keep up with the dynamic and highly industrialized society. He may have changed his bow and arrows to blue tooth and satellite networks.
With lovers meeting online, one cannot deny the fact that the heart knows no bound, and Mr. Cupid does still work whenever and whichever. The only difference with online dating to the traditional one is the physical presence. But both do involve the feeling of caring and being cared for. There are times when lovers who were together physically for a longest period of time did not make it through. In contrast those who met quickly made their relationships last for the longest time possible. Online dating is not different from these.
To others who are apprehensive that it does work, the following thoughts might change your perspective nonetheless:
Love holds no rule. It encompasses differences and limitations from both parties. It is not even the people who influence love but the affection itself overpowers them. Traditional dating and online dating have the same motive in allowing relationships to flourish. Either way, partners who are involved need not suppress their feelings. The best thing they can do is to get what they have been expecting in a relationship and to make most of who they have.
Attraction does not choose a place or a time or a method. Others even experience seeing the man and woman that they are meant to spend the rest of their lives with in their dreams. So computers and virtual realities is not a strange place for love to take place. Cupids may be mythical but being attracted to people is not. It can take place beyond the strangest place and time possible.
Editor’s Note: Article published here.
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Clarence Lee has been providing online dating services to the public for several years. His Dating Legend website offers singles personals and adult dating personals to its USA, European and Asian members. Visit http://www.hotlaid.com/ today.
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